5 Weeks In

Today is 5 weeks since I first arrived in our new state with R in tow and DH driving the cross-country trek alone.  That means it's been just about one month in our rental house.  In some ways, it seems and feels as if we've been here longer, but then I look around and see all of the boxes in the garage that are still waiting to be unpacked and remind myself that we have only been here a month and it's ok to still have all those boxes untouched.

We are all settling into the new place fairly well.  I'm actually surprised at how well the adjustment is going.  I still have good days and bad days as far as things that frustrate me here and things that I miss about our old place.  I expect those bad days to continue to creep up for awhile, but overall, I'm happy and content.  I have so much less stress not working and just staying home with R.  However, I am tired all the time and wondering how whacked out my hormones are and if I should start seeing a Napro Dr. here, but that all seems too overwhelming for now.

I've also settled into being alone in the house and neighborhood.  I've learned of which neighbors are home during the day (several!) and feel better about the overall safety of our location.  That doesn't mean, however, that I don't get creeped out when sketchy guys come to the door asking if I want an estimate on cutting down trees.  And I do have my limits- I won't shower if I'm here alone, which means I'm up and ready early before DH goes to work (bonus for getting things done!).  And I have my booby traps set on/near the doors.  I'm really ok being at home now, but it's when I go out and have to come back home alone to the house that I'm still not comfortable with.

I did go to a seminar in our county put on by the police department.  It was geared towards women and safety around town...perfect timing for me, huh?  Some of the info I already knew (be confident walking in a parking lot, have your keys ready, etc.)  But I did learn two new things.  1. The police said you want to make it difficult, noisy, time consuming, and visible to break into your home.  Therefore, keep your outside lights on overnight, illuminate all exterior entryways from dusk until dawn.  The energy saver in me used to keep all lights off overnight.  Plus, my thinking was, why would I want to illuminate a door, so that it would be easier for a thief to break in.  This is not the case, according to the police.  2. Instead of just not answering your door when you're home alone, acknowledge someone is there without opening the door by just saying, "I'm not interested" through the door.  Interesting, huh?  That way the person at the door knows someone is home and won't try to break in thinking the home is vacant.  Plus, you don't have to open the door if you don't feel safe.  Anyways, thought that was interesting and wanted to pass it along.

DH is settling into his new job fairly well and living up to the challenge of meeting so many new people.  He comes home most days for lunch since his work is one mile away.  I think we are all enjoying that new aspect as he's never done that with such regularity before.  He does have night commitments twice a week or more, so it is nice to have him home for a bit over lunch.

I survived a visit from my FIL, MIL, and SIL as they came to check out our new place a week after we arrived.  FIL ended up in the ER Sunday morning as he fainted during church.  It was quite the lively weekend.  Never a dull moment around us, I guess.  Thankfully, he was only dehydrated and checked out fine.  I now know how to get to the closest ER!  Overall though, it was nice to have them here visiting and helping a bit.

My car finally arrived Jan. 21st (we dropped it off to be shipped Jan. 2nd).  So now we just need to find our 2nd car seat base, and we're back to being a 2 car family again.  But we could really almost function with one car given how close we are to DH's work!

We closed on our house and everything went off without a hitch!  We seriously got spoiled selling the house as it was the easiest process for us.  I fully recognize God's hand in all of it because I know that is not the norm when you sell a house.  The final bills are paid and the checks are in the bank from the proceeds and refunds relating to the house.  We are officially done with our 1st home...sniff, sniff.

Our rental home has been quite eventful, on the other hand.  I sort of wish we were officially done with it already.  It started with scratching in the attic above our bed one night.  DH repaired a hole in the attic and in the process of having to go up in the attic, found droppings everywhere.  We're not just talking a few turds here and there....oh, no.  We are talking enough poo to fill a space between two beams and one inch deep, he said!  Gross!  Since the home had been vacant for awhile, it looks as if a cat or small raccoon had taken up residence there.  The homeowners got someone to shovel all of that out (yes, they needed a shovel and bucket!) and added three shingles to the roof that had been chewed away!  We've had them replace a light fixture that stopped working, repair a leak in the attic (water was dripping from the ceiling in R's room during a storm!), replace springs on the garage door, and more.  All in the first 3 weeks!  I think they probably get nervous when they see my number come up on caller ID.  DH has done a few repair things around here as far as tightening/fixing faucets, knobs, and toilets.

It's pretty sad that DH has been up in this attic more in one month than he had been the whole 10 years in our previous home.  Granted, this home is 20 years older than our previous home, but still.  There is no question we are not interested in buying this house (Did I tell you that was an option?).  There is so much updating that would need to be done (we have carpet in all our bathrooms...have you ever tried to vacuum around a toilet...not fun) and we are just not looking for a fixer upper.  The neighborhood is beautiful and established, but the home is not on our house hunting radar.

Speaking of house hunting....we have started the process already (see above comments about attic, DH, etc.)  It's a little earlier than we had anticipated, but things got so bad here one day, DH was just like...let's start looking to move.  I don't care if we're not here the full 6 months we had planned on!)  We've already been pre-approved on a loan and have gone out looking at homes one day with our realtor.  We wanted to get a feel for what is available in our price range (lots of short sales and foreclosures) and what our realtor wanted us to look for in a home purchase.  We stumbled upon an amazing foreclosure that was not on the market yet, and had it not been our first day of looking, we may have seriously considered putting an offer in.  We've driven by that house twice to check it out again. Hmm...it was definitely intriguing (built in 2000, cheap, perfect size house and yard that we're looking for, but would need work done before moving in- new carpets and paint, new appliances and master bath, and it's more of a starter neighborhood than an established one).

I think I've been feeling like God is asking me to be patient....like so many other times and areas in my life (dating, career, marriage, IF, pregnancy, etc.)....and it's still not what I want to do!  I've noticed a lot more homes coming on the market since Feb. 1 (I'm getting new listings via email every day), and feel like our "perfect" home is yet to be seen.  Hopefully we're in our own home by the summer time.  That would be my plan.  We'll see what God's plan is!  More updates on the babe and Lent coming soon.

My New Favorite Recipe

I have lots of updates to share and a few crazy stories as we continue to adjust to this new place.  But everything still seems to overwhelm me, so I'm just going to share my new favorite recipe with you.  We had this recently at the home of someone who invited us over and we just made it again this week.  Here are the instructions she gave me (it had been adapted from one she found at allrecipes.com called "Amazing Pork Tenderloin in Slow Cooker").

Here's what you need:

1 5-lb pork loin (this was not a tenderloin, just the loin.)
2 envelopes of dry onion soup mix (we used Lipton's brand)
1 1/2 cups water
1 1/2 cups red wine
3-5 tablespoons minced garlic (we used fresh garlic)
3-5 tablespoons low sodium soy sauce
fresh ground pepper to taste

Put the pork in a slow cooker and pour the water, wine and soy sauce over it.  Then turn the pork over to coat.  Sprinkle garlic, onion soup mix, and pepper on top. Cook on low for about 8 hours.  Serve the cooking liquid on the side.

We saw pork loin was on sale this week for 1.99 a pound at Kroger, so we thought it would be a good time to try out the recipe (it's usually 3.49).  Plus, I was craving meat and couldn't stop thinking about that yummy pork we had had 2 weeks ago.  The loin was pretty fatty on the outside, but we didn't trim it before cooking.  We mixed in one of the onion soup packets with the water, wine, and soy sauce mixture so it would dissolve.  The other one we sprinkled on top like the recipe said.  We let it cook overnight for about 9 hours, and then this morning I was able to just peel the fat off and scoop it out.  The meat fell apart it was so tender and DH and I each had huge servings of meat for lunch.  Yummy!  The best part is it's easy-peasy, just like this short blog post;-)

I'll try to be back soon with more stories.  For now, I'm off to Kroger to stock up on more pork loin for the freezer:-)

Quick Takes (32) and Trying to "Fear Not"

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Hello everyone!  Remember me?  It seems that I and my blog have fallen off the face of the earth.  I certainly feel like I've lost some of my readers and regular blogging groove.  And yet I still don't feel settled and ready for regular blogging again.  Perhaps it's sleep deprivation, mild depression, lack of a regular routine, being overwhelmed, or something else.  I keep hoping this will change, but so far no luck.

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We all survived the big move fairly well.  It worked really well for R and I to travel 500 miles with DH in the car over 2 days.  It gave us a chance to all leave town together, be sad together, and to spend some time cruising through the mountains (and saying goodbye to the Rockies) and reflecting back and looking ahead.  Plus, we also got to have a fun blogger meet up with this lovely blogger.  She's every bit as adventurous and outgoing in person as she is on her blog.  Thanks for making the drive to see us, M!  I survived my first solo flight with squirmy, wiggly R.  That was fun- not so much.  Thankfully, God placed understanding women in the seats next to me and gave on time flights, for my girl was awake for 5 or 6 hours straight!  DH had great driving weather and made the rest of the trip (1,500 miles) in 2 1/2 days.  That part of moving went as smoothly as we could have asked for.

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The moving company, on the other hand, left much room for improvement.  They packed us up in -9 degree temps!  Talk about chilly day.  R and I hung out upstairs in the master bath and bedroom for most of the time since it was warmest there.  She napped great in her playpen in the bathroom.  The movers did a good job packing everything up, but when it came to load the truck the next day, they did not put down any home protection as requested and got muddy footprints every where in our house (our carpeting is a light beige).  Not cool.  I even asked them at the beginning to put down floor coverings.  So, we had muddy foot prints in every single room of the house and dinged up doorframes and marks on the wall.  I was livid!  Thankfully, the moving company agreed to have carpet cleaners come in and clean it all after we had moved out.  Still, it was infuriating because we had our house so clean and taken care of to sell it and the muddy carpets could have been prevented.

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Once R and I had arrived in our new state, we got the keys to our rental house and discovered there was no fridge included!  We sold ours with our house as is customary there and I failed to get a list of all appliances included.  I assumed a fridge would be standard in a rental home.  I was not happy.  Thankfully, a family at church was getting rid of theirs, so we only had to go 3 days without a fridge!

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This weather in the South is going to take awhile to get used to.  It's been 50s and 60s all week and rainy...hardly mid-January weather like I'm used to.  I can't decide if I like it yet or just miss winter with snow.  Time will tell, I suppose.

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I'm currently waiting for the in-laws to arrive this evening; our first house guests in our new state.  Should be fun to see them and I know they're dying to see how R has grown.  Last time they saw her was her baptism at 5 weeks old!  We're also waiting for my car to arrive. That is the last piece of the moving puzzle.  We shipped it on Jan. 2nd.  Not sure why it's taking so long.

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Bible verse challenge.  On the 15th I picked another verse, but before I share which one, let me give a little background info.  Throughout the whole move process, God has continually (almost daily it seems) affirmed the move and His ability to provide what we need.  Whether it's a fridge, internet service, or even a TV, we continue to have just the right people offer what we need or don't have.  I continue to be amazed by the clarity that I seem to think He is acting with.  And the outpouring of love and support by church people has been like none that we've received before.  Maybe there really is something to southern hospitality.

All this sounds great, right?  The one thing that has crept up the most (probably Satan trying to steal my joy from the above good things) is my fear of my physical safety.  This house we are renting is old and needs updating.  The exterior doors (all 5 of them plus another to the garage) seem so old and flimsy that I feel like I could kick one in if I tried.  It's a ranch home with tons of space, which is great, but the basement creeps me out.  It walks out to a private, wooded backyard, and none of that part is visible to neighbors.  I feel like it's just a break in waiting to happen.  It's so weird to me that I can't stop thinking about someone breaking in.  The neighborhood is nice and well established, the neighbors we've met so far are nice, and there's nothing that should lead me to think it would be an area burglars would target.  But we are in a big metro area, so of course the crime is going to be higher than our previous town.  I've just never had such a strong sense of fear about someone breaking in before.  It's bizarre to me.  We have taken steps to make it more secure, but I still worry.  Maybe because I'm home all day with R, maybe because it's a new home and location, maybe because Satan wants me not to be thinking about God's goodness.

Anyways, I chose my verse to speak directly to that fear:

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

It's a long one, which made me not want to do it, but I think it'll be good to have a long verse to try and turn my thoughts to things from God!

Speaking of long...this is quite the long quick takes.  Maybe I should start calling them long takes if this keeps up!

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Singing A New Song

So many thoughts and so little time to process them.  I'll do my best here though since this is a good outlet for me to start processing where I've been and where I'm going.

I'm participating in this lovely lady's Scripture memory challenge for 2013, and it serves as the basis for some of the thoughts I'm processing about the New Year, the move, etc.  The idea is to choose a Bible verse to memorize on the 1st and 15th of the month.  I participated in this challenge back in 2011 and it was such a good thing for me.  I didn't retain all 24 verses that I memorized, but I did remember more than I knew at the beginning of the year.  It was a good exercise to practice filling my mind with spiritual thoughts from God rather than complaints, worries, etc.  And since I feel this blog has become somewhat of a downer lately with all my sad posts about moving (such has been my life too), this challenge came at a good time.


The verse I chose for the first two weeks of January is: "Sing to the LORD a new song; sing to the LORD, all the earth." Psalm 96:1 NIV 

It's a short verse, but it's sort of going to become my theme verse for the year, I think.  With the start of the New Year, I always have ideas of what I hope to accomplish and how I hope to live.  With the move coming so quickly after the New Year, it is so vividly clear to me that 2012 marks the closing of the chapter of my life in the Mountain West and 2013 marks the opening of a new chapter in the Southeast.  It's still quite hard and emotional for me to think about basically starting our life over, and yet it's what I know God is asking of me/us.  I feel like "my song" is changing with the move.  All of the areas I was previously involved in- work, church, campus ministry, women's Bible study, etc. (all of the things that made up "my song") are going to change.  And while I can look at the change with much sadness as I have been lately, I can also embrace the change and look to the Lord to provide me with a new song. 

So I love the "new song" idea, but I also love the singing part as well.  Singing is filled with such joy and that's what I hope to convey to people in the new place as well as my family and those around me.  I'll admit I don't think it's going to be easy, but I'm going to try and sing my "new song."  And I love a short verse because the first part of January is crazy: we shipped my car out of the big city on Wednesday, movers packed up our house yesterday, they are loading the moving truck today in the bitter cold (negative temps...brr), tomorrow we pull out of our beautiful mountain valley for the last time (I'm already tearing up thinking about it), R and I are taking our time riding to Denver with DH, R and I then fly to our new town and hang out with her Godparents while DH drives 3 more days.  Our stuff will arrive a day or two after DH and then the fun continues as we begin to get settled into our rental home for the next 6 months or so.  So a short verse is good for me.  Plus, I've already been reciting it over and over, so I know it was the right choice.

I may be MIA for awhile until we get an internet connection set up at the new place.  I expect to be back to sporadic blogging by mid-January.  Just in time to share my January 15th verse with y'all, right;-)

So Many Thoughts and Emotions: Part 2

Well, this isn't necessarily the last post of the year that I had in mind, but since I've been working to finish the 2nd part of my update post, here goes:

Back here I had posted the beginnings of my emotions surrounding a multitude of topics.  I had left you hanging on the house, so Part 2 will mainly be about the house.  To recap- we busted our buns getting the house ready for the market and in showing condition.  And we priced it to sell.  We hoped we wouldn't have to spend months of continuing to pay the mortgage here while we paid rent (or a 2nd mortgage) in our new location.  To do that, our realtor researched the prices of homes in our area that had recently sold and compared them with the size of ours.  We priced our home a little higher than what she recommended, but we wanted some wiggle room for negotiating.  We also figured out the worst case scenario as far as the maximum of all the fees we would have to pay, if the buyers requested we pay closing costs, what we still owe on our mortgage, etc.  DH and I hoped we would come out ahead enough that we would have 20% to put down on a new home.  As we ran the worst case scenario numbers, we quickly realized that we would come out at almost exactly that 20% figure we were hoping for!  Thank you, Lord.  I do not think that was a coincidence.

So our house goes on the market December 7th- not exactly prime time to sell a house, but it was the best we could do.  DH still continues to freak out a bit about the stress of selling the house.  "Normally high stress me" is calm, cool, and collected about selling the house.  I continue to reassure him that God will take care of the house.  Evidently, it is easy for me to trust God with huge things that are out of my control (except for IF).  I even wrote in my journal before our house went on the market about my confidence (or foolishness and naivety to some) of how quickly God was going to sell our house.  I thought I could just feel it working out.

I breathe a huge sigh of relief when our house finally does go up on the market because it's a little hard to sell a house if it isn't on the market.  And yet I quickly realize that I am exhausted and not excited about waking up every day and making sure the house is in "show" condition in case we get a phone call from our realtor.

The photographer comes Friday afternoon to take professional pictures of our house (our house went up on the market with just one exterior photo) and I tell DH it's too bad the pictures won't be uploaded until Monday.  We'll probably have showings of people who wouldn't be interested if they could see the interior of our home (we have lots of colorful, painted walls).  Sure enough...we get a phone call Friday afternoon saying we have a showing scheduled Saturday afternoon.  Let the fun begin.

We vacate our home and head to DH's office because, of course, R wants to take a nap while we need to be out of the house.  We bring work to do at his office and before R even wakes up from her nap, we have a phone call and an offer on the house! Less than 45 minutes after the showing we have a reasonable offer!  I wasn't surprised (see confidence in God comment above) and yet I was.  Wow.  God really was going to sell our house in a weekend.

We met with our realtor and discussed the offer.  Since it was the 1st showing and the 1st offer, we decided to do a counter offer.  But DH and I would have been happy with the original offer...it was a little less than we asked, but they covered closing costs, making us come out ahead of our worst case scenario!   The coolest part for me was seeing the names of the buyers on the paperwork we had to sign and realizing that most likely they were international students or adults connected with the institution I taught at (based on where they were pre-approved for a loan).  I only had their names to go by, but I figured they were either Ethiopian or Arabic.  What a way for me to come full circle.  I moved out here in Jan. 2004 to go to graduate school and teach ESL.  And here I am leaving almost exactly 9 years later after having taught ESL for nearly my whole time here.  I love that we sold our house to an international couple!  I almost started crying in front of our realtor when I realized that.  That turned out even better than I expected in so many ways.

We sent a counter over Sat. night and by Sun. afternoon they had accepted!  We sold our house with 1 showing and 1 day on the market.  God's hand was clearly all over that.  Who sells their house that quickly in December in this market?  Apparently, God does that for us.  Everyone we talked to was simply stunned by the news of our house selling so rapidly.  I thoroughly enjoyed giving God credit for the amazing work He had done.  There was no other way to explain it than God, and even those non-believers/non-church attenders around me had to admit they were amazed (and hopefully saw my testimony to God).

Talk about a huge, majorly big obstacle falling by the wayside.  God continued to pave the way for our move and clearly showed us it was time to move and confirmed the decision we had made.  That was a relief.  I can't even imagine the stress of a cross-country move if one of us was regretting the decision or feeling we made the wrong decision.

Selling the house quickly meant we could put up some Christmas decorations and could live a little in our house, not having to worry about a potential showing every single day.  It was nice to have a few personal items out for Advent and Christmas.  It wasn't the same as years past, but at least we had a teeny tiny tree (the 3ft kind that goes in an entryway) that R could stare at and we could take pictures of her by.  I called it our twig tree.  And even having a twig tree was ok with me.

Throughout the whole process, I found it ironic at how calm I was and how stress DH was. He usually is the one who is always so calm and relaxed and I am the one spazzing around worrying like a crazy fool.  He was the calm one throughout our years of IF.  He'd reassure me and say he just knew we would have our own child one day.  It's funny how our roles were reversed and I was the one calmly telling him not to worry about our house selling because I just knew it would sell without a problem.

So...the house is under contract.  We've completed the home inspection and all of the little things they wanted us to fix.  The appraiser came today.  We just have to wait on the buyer's financing and we will have sold our home.  Thanks be to God for showing His power in such a clear and mighty way!

And with that we close the 2012 year out and almost simultaneously close this chapter in our lives.  2012 has been good to us...house renovations, preparations for Baby PPIW's arrival, the birth of R, lots of family visits, several trips to other states, and the selling of our house.  Of course there have been challenges with the decision to move and other issues, but it seems 2012 was a lot kinder to us than previous years.  Probably because it was in 2012 that we officially said goodbye to IF.  Who knows what the future holds regarding my health and our family size, but we can no longer call ourselves IF with the birth of R in 2012.  And with that we look to 2013 with excitement, anticipation, and a little bit of fear.  Goodbye, 2012. 

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas to all!  I pray your celebrations of our Savior's birth were filled with the wonder, joy, and peace that only He can bring.

It was sort of a different Christmas for us; a Christmas of firsts and lasts.  It was simply beautiful outside yesterday...blue skies and sun reflecting on all of the snow we had gotten Christmas Eve.  The trees were covered with the fresh dusting and it looked beautiful.  What a way for God to send us out in His magnificent style.

-R's 1st Christmas.  What a joy it was to see her experience the lights, Christmas hymns at church, and the presents.  She's old enough (almost 8 months now) that she was able to take it all in, observing everything around her.  My favorite was watching her play with her Little People nativity set.  It has long been a dream of mine to have a little one to play with that set.  It may sound funny, but every Christmas I would see that nativity in the store and want to buy it for our child.  Christmas after Christmas would go by and I wouldn't buy it because we were still IF.  Finally, last year I bought it while we were pregnant in anticipation of what I imagined would be coming the following Christmas.  My heart is so happy as I watch her play with baby Jesus, Mary, and Joseph.

-Our last Christmas here.  All of the joy and excitement of having R experience her 1st Christmas was tempered with the sadness of knowing this was also our last Christmas here.  Our last white Christmas, our last Christmas in this home and this town, our last time celebrating Christmas Eve and Christmas Day services with our church family- people that really are almost like our own families.  I cried yesterday as we were leaving church, knowing it was the last time we would worship in that building and with those people for some time (sure we will come back and visit one day, but things will never be the same).

And yet through it all, I tried to remember our faith in Christ....the thing that unites us as a family of three and unites us as a body of believers...no matter where we live or where we celebrate Christmas!

And throughout all our celebrations of firsts and lasts, those of you waiting were especially on my heart and mind and in my prayers.  I pray especially that one day soon you will be able to experience the joy of Christmas as seen through the eyes of your child.

So Many Thoughts and Emotions: Part 1

Hello, blogger world friends!  Remember me?  I'm the one who used to post multiple times a week, or at least once a week had been my goal recently.  Life has gotten away from me and I haven't posted in what feels like ages.  Let me explain what has been happening and some of the thoughts filling my head.  Then maybe you will see why I haven't had time to post as much as I would like.  In no organized order:

Colleague's memorial: Last weekend I attended a memorial service for my colleague.  He was the one diagnosed with cancer this summer, and I was the one they called in to pick up his class.  I have thought about him all term long...how he was so close to retirement, how he had spent 30+ years teaching at this institution, etc.  He died before Thanksgiving, but his family just had the memorial last weekend.  He was active in the Quaker community, so it was a Quaker service.  Very interesting.  Everyone sat in a circle and there was no scheduled program.  Anyone who wanted to speak could just stand up and say something about him.  Then everyone had a moment of silence to meditate on the words that were spoken before the next person stood up.  It was nice, but I'll be honest, there was no hope.  A funeral is depressing for me to attend unless the person knew Christ.  There is hope in the power and resurrection of Christ to those that believe.  Without new life in Christ and the promise of time spent with him in heaven, things are just depressing.

Last day of teaching: Last Friday marked the end of my teaching career here and the end of my working for awhile.  It's such a weird thing.  I have been teaching at the same place for 9 (nine!) years.  That is the longest I've ever worked in one place before.  And I've loved it.  I've loved my students and what they've taught me, I've loved (most of) my colleagues, I've loved the academic setting I've taught in and all the opportunities and experiences it has afforded me.  My department already had a farewell party for me.  I just have to finish sorting through and cleaning out my office and packing the teaching books that I want to take with, and then I will be putting a close to that chapter of my life (permanently or for a while?  I don't know at this point).

Preparing the house to sell: We busted our buns to get our house ready to put on the market.  After we met with our realtor, I had a huge list of things I wanted us to do to get it ready to show.  We wanted to list our house that week after we met with her, but we didn't quite make our personal deadline as there was so much to do.  

We had professional carpet cleaners in to clean our carpets, and they turned out so amazing!  We only did the high traffic areas, hallways, and stairs because we had too much stuff in the other rooms, but I can't believe how much better they look.  DH and I were ready to just put a flooring allowance into our seller's contract because we thought they were in such bad shape.  We had rented carpet cleaners before and nothing really seemed to work.  Our realtor suggested we try a Chem-Dry franchise, and it was the best $120 we spent.  They pre-treated the worst areas (that was $20 extra...ooo, deal) and did an amazing job.  Their cleaning products are green-friendly and safe for kids, and the carpets were dry within just a few hours.  You almost can't tell that our cream-colored carpeting is 10 years old!  (And no, they did not pay me to advertise for them for free).

We also took all of our pictures off the walls, put most of our personal things (ie. knick knacks) away, and moved a bunch of furniture to the garage, so that our spaces looked bigger.  It was hard to put everything away because we didn't want to pack it since the moving company will do the packing, but we didn't want to leave it out cluttering up our house.  We'll just say it's a good thing all the space under our beds was open and we had extra shelves in our closets to fill!

We filled nail holes and did paint touch ups.  We bought some new blinds to replace ones that didn't match or looked worn.  We shoved a bunch of stuff into boxes and put in the crawl space.  I sold a few large items that we don't plan on moving.  Phew!  We were tired, exhausted, and physically drained by the time our house went up on the market.  And I was the slave driver behind all of it, which meant DH and I were often bickering because I was making him work on stuff in the evenings when he didn't want to (I didn't want to either).  I knew we would run out of time if I wasn't constantly hounding him, making him to-do lists, etc.

We did get our house on the market Dec. 7th (10 days after we met with our realtor for the first time!) I will count that as a success considering both DH and I were working during that time and taking care of R.  I will update you on the house in the next post (part 2) because there are so many things I'm still processing about that whole process.  Sorry to leave you in suspense;-)

Goodbyes: I hate saying goodbye.  I really do.  This weekend was a hard one: lots of goodbyes at church, with my work colleagues, etc.  One of the things I will miss most about the church we've been at here is the college group that I've helped out with.  Some of these young men and women are so strong in their faith.  It has been fun to be around many of them for multiple years in a row, and it's always nice to feel like God is using you to impact the lives of others.  It's kind of like they become our adoptive kids for awhile- asking DH and I for advice on things like dating, career choices, direction, etc.  And they have totally fallen in love with R.  You should see some of these college boys swoon over her.  It is precious.  Well, we had to say goodbye to the whole group on Sunday.  So, so sad.  Another chapter closes.

And because this post has already gotten longer than I expected, I'll close Part 1 and begin working on Part 2.